Today for the very first time, I look myself in the mirror and told myself how far I have come.
To compare now and the person I am a year ago, woooaah... massive change.
It's funny how time flies so fast that none of us actually realised it, till this very moment I still can't believe a year has gone by since I first started getting into seduction community.
It's crazy because of my lack of faith in myself, I tend to see things in short term and not seen the bigger picture.
I would always compare myself today and yesterday not knowing that I have actually progress so far not just in pick up but as a person, as a man.
One thing Sam brought up that really resonates in my mind, the lack of faith I have with pick up.
Honestly, I never really thought about it. I mean I thought I was giving it my 100% believe in the system, I've been reading and learning and practising. I have tonnes of faith with pick up.
And then it struck me. It was the lack of faith in myself.
I am sure many of us are info junkie, and I'm pretty sure many of us came across the phrase "not caring"
Me and Tom met up with Sam last night, it was student night, loads of people around.
I just wanted to hang out, have a few drinks and no expectations, just have a good time
Which I did and if I can be honest here, this is the first night in bar that I actually enjoy myself.
Yes the first time in a year since I learn the game.
By not caring!
Guess what?
Approach 3 sets and every set was good!!
We had so much fun, time just flies.
I always go into bars with goals and mission and I always ended up anxious and nervous thinking that I have to complete the mission. So much thinking that I eventually shoot myself in the foot before I even get into the bar. My head is so full of bullshit I couldn't have fun and ended up not doing a single approach.
Some guys are more on a competitive side and they have this check-list to do. To be completed for the night. That is fine.
But for those who do not believe in missions, don't be afraid to go in there not expecting anything, just have fun, that's the least you could do for yourself after putting so much work and effort into learning all this.
Approach Anxiety will always be there for me even after one year and it's different for other people as well. But looking back I know that I have come a great distance.
Have faith in yourself, believe that you are special and put in the work
Hopefully this post can get you guys started or if you are in the game for some time, help you to re-evaluate yourself and see where you are in your journey to self improvement
Be the Best
Jimbeam
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