Nothing awesome happen for the past week or 2.
Did not successfully pick up any girl, in fact I did not even iniate any approaches!
I'm not sure why this is happening, can it be lack of motivation or just plain lazy, I don't really know. Maybe you guys out there could tell me.
Went out with Sam last Tuesday night with the sole intention of practicing our approach and pick up but it ended up both of us buying cheap alcohol from Tesco and drank at my place. Sam could really drink. Me on the other hand was not. I have never been a big fan of alcohol
Sam decided that we should take a break from pick up and just enjoy the night. Well. it is true that we needed a break. To be honest, since I met Sam, we never really hang out and have fun, it was always about "work". So fucking tiring. So, Sam suggested that we celebrate our night of being in a path of PUA and also kind of a farewell thing because he is leaving for a euro trip next month for a month. We hang out at my place drinknng, and ended up chatting and learning more about him. I didn't really like the idea of taking a break and drink ourselves to death, coz it feels like we are wasting our time. But after an hour to our drinking, I actually glad that we did took our break, it was so relaxing, something that I did not feel for a long time. BTW, I didn't drink much so I was pretty sober at that time, sober enough to have a proper conversation and i was totally in control of myself LOL :P
I've read somewhere, probably from "THE GAME" by Neil Strauss. Learning the game isn't about them (females), it's about us, we, me, the man, MALE. It has always about us. This is self improvement. Some people who has such big ego that they are afraid to admit it that they needed help. We all need help, one way or another
Like I said in my previous post. I have never thought I could do what I did, compared to 4 months ago, its a fucking big improvement. Having said that, it doesn't mean I'm any good, I'm far from it, but I know I'm going to work harder to perfect my skills now that I know that this is possible.
Take it one day at a time. Don't rush things.
Friday, 27 August 2010
Saturday, 14 August 2010
My first Number Close!
Yes that's right, my very first number close and it doesn't matter if it flakes,, all i know I did it, and I know genuinely it was because I apply what I've learn for the past 3 months. (and im 99% sure the number is solid :p)
Go back 4 months ago, I was a douchebag! My first "ugly" encounter was in Coventry in a Chinese karaoke/disco. I did what an AFC will do, bought her drinks (2 drinks in fact)
Made a fool out of myself, by leaning in, running out of things to say, it was just dumb
I was there like 2 freaking hours trying to get that blonde, and I ask her for her number, textet her the next day and guess what, no reply
Tonight, met up with Mike and Sam, apparently Mike is leaving for Birmingham soon and tonight was his last night with us, which was really sad for me coz I really like that guy.
Like usual we were drinking and doing some warm up sets. Sam was pushing me really hard to approach because he knows I can get AA quickly, and when i Do get them, its ugly
So I did 3 warm up sets and by the 3rd one, I was high
We bounced to the next bar and this is where I game 2 girls, 1 blonde the other brunette
3 of us was on a table and 2 of them was on the other side
So i took the initiative to walk over to them and ask them random question
It was a situational opener and they respond to it nicely
Transition in to a few stuff like music
Did the best friend opener, and they laughed like hell well giggle actually, IOI!!
My Attraction and Qualification is really blur here coz this is the first time I went this long
Got their names first instead of waiting
Tried to move them to our group but it didnt work
WEll, luckily for Sam he brought out the camera and that's my que! Perfect logistic
Ask if they could take a picture of us
Ended up taking pictures for them and Woila! Joined our group
I wanted the blonde, but logistic was hard for me to get to her, so when she went to the bar, I got an extra chair next to me and Bingo end up sitting with me
Had great conversation, Transition is the key all thanks to Magic Bullet! and PHIL!!
I did ran some routines here like the THE Ring made famous in the THE GAME by Neil Strauss
Did loads of Kino but I could tell it was not smooth but it was ok
We wanted to bounce again, but the girls wanted to stay so I got the blondes number and she happily reply
Something weird happen after that, there was a random song playing at that time and I just BS and said I like that song and she said she like it too, and she asked me for a dance!! Woohoo
So i knew it was a solid number
Thanks guys for everything and after tonight I want more.
P/S: I'm not just gaming her, she really is interesting, I did Qualification on her and found out we did have common interest and we love the same movie too!
Peace out
JimBeam
Go back 4 months ago, I was a douchebag! My first "ugly" encounter was in Coventry in a Chinese karaoke/disco. I did what an AFC will do, bought her drinks (2 drinks in fact)
Made a fool out of myself, by leaning in, running out of things to say, it was just dumb
I was there like 2 freaking hours trying to get that blonde, and I ask her for her number, textet her the next day and guess what, no reply
Tonight, met up with Mike and Sam, apparently Mike is leaving for Birmingham soon and tonight was his last night with us, which was really sad for me coz I really like that guy.
Like usual we were drinking and doing some warm up sets. Sam was pushing me really hard to approach because he knows I can get AA quickly, and when i Do get them, its ugly
So I did 3 warm up sets and by the 3rd one, I was high
We bounced to the next bar and this is where I game 2 girls, 1 blonde the other brunette
3 of us was on a table and 2 of them was on the other side
So i took the initiative to walk over to them and ask them random question
It was a situational opener and they respond to it nicely
Transition in to a few stuff like music
Did the best friend opener, and they laughed like hell well giggle actually, IOI!!
My Attraction and Qualification is really blur here coz this is the first time I went this long
Got their names first instead of waiting
Tried to move them to our group but it didnt work
WEll, luckily for Sam he brought out the camera and that's my que! Perfect logistic
Ask if they could take a picture of us
Ended up taking pictures for them and Woila! Joined our group
I wanted the blonde, but logistic was hard for me to get to her, so when she went to the bar, I got an extra chair next to me and Bingo end up sitting with me
Had great conversation, Transition is the key all thanks to Magic Bullet! and PHIL!!
I did ran some routines here like the THE Ring made famous in the THE GAME by Neil Strauss
Did loads of Kino but I could tell it was not smooth but it was ok
We wanted to bounce again, but the girls wanted to stay so I got the blondes number and she happily reply
Something weird happen after that, there was a random song playing at that time and I just BS and said I like that song and she said she like it too, and she asked me for a dance!! Woohoo
So i knew it was a solid number
Thanks guys for everything and after tonight I want more.
P/S: I'm not just gaming her, she really is interesting, I did Qualification on her and found out we did have common interest and we love the same movie too!
Peace out
JimBeam
Wednesday, 11 August 2010
Top reason why I enjoy watching good films
IT STIMULATES YOUR BRAIN!
Yes, it does. To me at least, everytime!
You start to think, wonder, ponder and what not.
You then question reality and you question yourself.
I find this very stimulating, in a good way.
It does help me to revaluate my life. I always ask myself, is this IT? Or there is something greater out there.
I watched Inception today. Got me thinking hard
You know, it's interesting how much you can learn from watching movies.
I admit, I can be a very ignorant person
so, most of the time I will definitely learn something new, just by watching movies
All along I though being aware in a dream was something of a child's play, something out of a wishful thinking. Not until this evening, this can be done and there are tonnes of websites out there dedicated in teaching people how to do just that.
This is what they called "Lucid Dreaming"
I think I'm going to try this
This blog is going to servve as my Dream Journal as well as PUA
No, I have not forgotten my real life goal. PUA is something I'm working on, as for the time being this is still a secret, no one knows about my little secret pass time. Neither family nor friends know about this.
Till next time
Jimbeam
Yes, it does. To me at least, everytime!
You start to think, wonder, ponder and what not.
You then question reality and you question yourself.
I find this very stimulating, in a good way.
It does help me to revaluate my life. I always ask myself, is this IT? Or there is something greater out there.
I watched Inception today. Got me thinking hard
You know, it's interesting how much you can learn from watching movies.
I admit, I can be a very ignorant person
so, most of the time I will definitely learn something new, just by watching movies
All along I though being aware in a dream was something of a child's play, something out of a wishful thinking. Not until this evening, this can be done and there are tonnes of websites out there dedicated in teaching people how to do just that.
This is what they called "Lucid Dreaming"
I think I'm going to try this
This blog is going to servve as my Dream Journal as well as PUA
No, I have not forgotten my real life goal. PUA is something I'm working on, as for the time being this is still a secret, no one knows about my little secret pass time. Neither family nor friends know about this.
Till next time
Jimbeam
Wednesday, 4 August 2010
Honest, I've Been Lazy
I've been lazy, no excuse!I haven't been approaching for the past week. I've failed teribly. Everytime I try to read some stuff regarding PUA, my eyes will drop, yawn, drowsy, it's like I'm not interested anymore. It's like I don't give a shit about all this PUA
But I know I want to be good at this. I can see myself being good at this. It's ironic coz usually I'm a really modest when it comes to things like this, but I know I can be good
On my previous blog I mentioned about looking around our surroundings and we could get motivation and stuff like that. This is still true.
Never Give UP!
Sunday, 1 August 2010
Friendly Reminder
Do you sometimes get tired of all this game? Burned out? Do you sometimes questions yourself on why you are playing this game, why are you sacrificing all your time on this? Oh I definitely do, I question myself everyday and wonder if all of this worth it?
Look around, the answer is all around you! It can come in both loud and subtle way. I had my friendly reminder today when I was delivering food to a nearby place. My GOD did I slap myself on the face. She was absolutely HOT! and guess what? She was wearing this sweat pants which hugs nicely on her ass and the panties was visible on the back and I could see a little ass crack too!! and another blonde came walking out on a white tank top with some really short jeans pants... OF coz they got BF! That was my wake up call...
On my way back to my car, I started talking to myself like a weirdo. I'm sane, honest, I was just beating myself up for questioning my quest for glory. Then, I realise why was I so into the game in the first place. It wasn't about the girls, the females, NO, it was I, we, men, Male... its for our future!
If you or I ever question our reason into the game, take a good look around us :)
P/S: I'm still new with the whole blogging stuff so it might look a little plain but give me some time, and it will look better in no time
Look around, the answer is all around you! It can come in both loud and subtle way. I had my friendly reminder today when I was delivering food to a nearby place. My GOD did I slap myself on the face. She was absolutely HOT! and guess what? She was wearing this sweat pants which hugs nicely on her ass and the panties was visible on the back and I could see a little ass crack too!! and another blonde came walking out on a white tank top with some really short jeans pants... OF coz they got BF! That was my wake up call...
On my way back to my car, I started talking to myself like a weirdo. I'm sane, honest, I was just beating myself up for questioning my quest for glory. Then, I realise why was I so into the game in the first place. It wasn't about the girls, the females, NO, it was I, we, men, Male... its for our future!
If you or I ever question our reason into the game, take a good look around us :)
P/S: I'm still new with the whole blogging stuff so it might look a little plain but give me some time, and it will look better in no time
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